What makes men fall in love – the most important factor

What makes men fall in love – the most important factor

Dearest Beautiful One, Ever wonder what makes men fall in love? Through my work as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ve spent countless hours listening to just about every issue single, married, and divorced guys have when it comes to what they really want in relationships. Those countless hours have given me a unique understanding into what men really want in a partner, what builds attraction with them, and what keeps that attraction brewing in the long term.

Today I’m going to spill my secrets! But, first, one important reminder… You can’t make anyone love you. Nor would you want to. In fact, I forbid you to try. Sometimes guys just aren’t ready to commit. Sometimes they’re so caught up in their own dead-end patterns, they’re incapable of moving forward. Sometimes they’re still healing from heartbreak.

Nothing you do will change that. In those cases, you just need to move on. (And thank the Universe for saving you from further heartbreak.)

So, now that I’ve gotten that caveat out of the way…

Time for the juicy secrets into what men want in a relationship…

The first key to winning with men is having FUN!

This is the most important law of attraction! Men want to be with a woman who is happy and enjoying herself. The happier you are and the more you’re enjoying yourself with him, the more connected he feels to you. He takes credit for it. Your happiness is his happiness! And, even if he really hasn’t done anything in particular to bring you happiness in that moment, he instinctively knows that he has the power to please you.

Yet, if you’re not happy, he feels like he’s failed. In fact, believing they can’t please a woman is one of the biggest reasons men won’t commit.

This is why it’s so crucial for you to create happy life for yourself, whether you’re single or in a relationship.

There are of course, many different ways to have fun. You and your guy can try new things, enjoy downtime together, laugh and joke around, or go on exciting adventures. I’m not saying you have to be the life of the party or have a smile on your face 24/7. You still have to be real.

The most successful and lasting relationships are ones where having fun and enjoying life is a priority.

Now, let’s delve deeper. I share tons more details into men and how to relate to them during my recent interview on the Single Smart Female Podcast with Jenn Burton.

I had the best time with Jenn and she seriously asked the most insightful questions.

Listen in to learn…

What’s the biggest misconception from women about what men want?
What old world courtesans teach us about men and your physical beauty.
What happens once the conquest is over?

Plus, I share some very personal details about my early relationships and how I broke through my own dead-end patterns to find the most amazing partner.

Source: Lovein90days.com

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